A man who once lived as a woman for many years believes those questioning their gender should first confront the deeper issues behind their feelings. Walt Heyer, now 84, transitioned back to living as a man 40 years ago after spending eight years as a woman. He runs a ministry and a website called “Sex Change Regret,” where he claims to have assisted thousands of people who regret their decisions regarding gender transition.
Heyer recently collaborated with Dr. Jennifer Bauwens, the Director of the Center for Family Studies at the Family Research Council, on a new book titled “Embracing God’s Design.” This book explores the spiritual and psychological challenges many face in relation to transgender identity. The authors argue that recent activism on the political left has significantly influenced how gender issues are approached in both diagnostic practices and care, potentially harming those in need.
In the conversation about gender confusion, Heyer and Bauwens emphasize the importance of uncovering root causes rather than jumping to affirm a person’s claimed identity. They suggest that many individuals dealing with gender dysphoria have experienced some form of trauma during childhood, including abuse or neglect.
Bauwens points out that current counseling practices often prioritize affirming a person’s gender over addressing these underlying traumas. She cites data showing that a significant number of individuals identifying as transgender report prior abuse, highlighting a critical need for appropriate treatment that considers history rather than just current feelings.
Heyer shared his own traumatic history, which began in childhood with experiences of abuse and confusion surrounding his identity. After living as a woman and undergoing surgeries, he realized that his struggles were not purely about gender but were deeply tied to past trauma. He credits his recovery to his faith in God and the guidance of Christian counselors, who helped him confront his true identity.
Both authors believe the gender movement is not just a personal issue, but a spiritual one that challenges fundamental beliefs about family and identity. They argue that society is at risk of losing the distinct qualities of male and female that contribute to a stable family structure and a healthy understanding of self.
Amidst rising concerns about mental health among young people, Bauwens warns that disregarding God’s design could leave generations without a clear identity or purpose. She invites people of faith to engage in what she describes as a vital battle for truth and meaning in today’s world.
