Kristin Cavallari, known for her reality TV appearances, is opening up about what she looks for in a partner. After being in a relationship with someone 13 years younger, she’s reevaluating her priorities.
On her podcast, “Let’s Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari,” she spoke with actress Sarah Shahi about divorce and raising kids. Shahi, who divorced in 2021, shared her experiences of being a mom.
During a lighthearted part of the show, Cavallari and Shahi talked about what they find attractive in men they might date. Cavallari presented a scenario: What if a man doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want any?
Shahi’s response was straightforward: “Not hot.” She explained that as a mother, her heart has grown, and someone who doesn’t want children might have a “level of selfishness” that wouldn’t align with her.
Cavallari agreed, saying that a man not wanting children is now a “deal breaker” for her. She feels such a person wouldn’t truly understand her life as a mom to her three kids, whom she shares with ex-husband Jay Cutler. They divorced in 2020 after seven years of marriage.
Cavallari, who is 39, previously dated TikTok star Mark Estes, 26. That relationship ended after seven months. She also hinted at a past romance with country singer Morgan Wallen, though she never confirmed it.
It seems Cavallari is now prioritizing shared values and understanding of family life as she looks for a partner.


