Tori Spelling has shared her struggles since separating from her husband Dean McDermott in June 2023. On her podcast, “Misspelling,” she expressed the challenges of raising their five children—Liam, Stella, Hattie, Finn, and Beau—during this difficult time.
During a recent episode, Spelling, 51, spoke about how her life has become less stable. She explained that her career in Hollywood means that her financial situation isn’t consistent, which has affected her family’s life. “I feel like I’m constantly letting them down because my life is not stable,” she admitted. She noted that while she can provide love, her children are experiencing a chaotic ride alongside her.
Spelling reflected on a time when her work life was stable, with multiple shows and brands thriving, helping her support her family. However, after the split, things changed dramatically. “Now, they’re privy to more than I think that I’m comfortable with children being privy to,” she said, acknowledging that the family’s dynamic has shifted.
Throughout this process, Spelling has felt overwhelmed by external opinions on her life, particularly since her father’s prominence as a TV mogul. She described her feeling of being in a constant state of fight or flight since her separation and the toll it takes on her and her children.
The actress highlighted how setbacks come at every turn, leaving her feeling like she is constantly trying to climb a hill. “When life keeps serving you unexpected things, it can be discouraging,” she said, expressing a sense of resilience despite the challenges.
Psychotherapist Dr. Hillary Goldsher supported Spelling’s feelings, noting that divorce can bring trauma and stress. Spelling’s experience with the ups and downs of life after divorce resonates with many who have faced similar situations. Her candidness sheds light on the realities of navigating family life amid significant changes.
